Just Not My Day

1. wrongly decided to terminate my post-paid card;
2. now I will be charged for receiving phone call;
3. and cannot communicate well with him or her;
4. fastnet has problem in Indo;
5. we cannot chat well;
6. it's day 23 of the month;
7. and also our 1 year and 9 month monthliversary (?);
8. supposedly not too important since we are not on those celebrating age now;
9. but Im kinda sad;
10. asked him to come by this weekend;
11. cannot do;
12. got a fuckin presentation tomorrow;
13. clueless;
14. feel that same paranoia;
15. killing me.

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To Win Our Heart

Winning a girl's  heart is 'susah-susah-gampang'. Don't be fooled by any mall/magazine/factory propagandistic approaches.


The salient things are:

1. simplicity;


2. surprise; and


3. personalization.

We, girls, love to be loved, to be surprised and to be given gifts. We love diamonds, bags, shoes and cars but (luckily for u boys) we are easily touched by simple things. Imagine, a girl has flied for hours and his boyfriend appeared with a glass/carton of milk in his hand for her to drink... Are u with me if I say the boy has just won her heart? I was given a shandy beer by my BF on a very hot day when I was so busy of selling my second-hand stuffs to be sold on a garage sale. I saw him walked with a can of beer on his hand and I melted right there. Just right there.

The second salient thing is surprise element. I don't thing it's necessary to do an elaboration here. Just put a dash of surprise. Think of anything that would make her thinks "kok kepikiran sih?" and not to forget to pick the right timing.

The last thing (?) is personalization. Card or anything accompanying a small carton of milk or a can of beer is too much. Use ur imagination to personalize it.
Okay boyss.. go and grab ur girls' heart!!! And you... yes you.. you've grabbed hers, thanks to the shandy milk! oops I mean beer :p

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Some Sundays

Webster's Unabridged Dictionary defines Sunday: "Sunday: so called because this day was anciently dedicated to the sun or to its worship. The first day of the week; the Christian Sabbath; a day consecrated to rest from secular employment, and to religious worship; the Lord's day."

Some Sundays on 20 years ago

Watched TVRI that aired the first dubbed TV show in Indonesia, Little Missy. Scared of the women's voice. Or watched the music show, Album Minggu Kita, stared at Titto Sumarsono, Trio Libels, or Vina Panduwinata, was happy to be able to hum. Need to take a nap at 2.00 pm, otherwise Mom would be very angry

Some Sundays on 2008 (Jan-April)

Stare at laptop, blankly. Stare at the reading materials, blankly. Have nothing in mind, have nothing to write. Curse. Need to submit the critique at 6.00, otherwise the grade would be downgraded.

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Sophie

"Sophie Ellis Baxter has always been my idol..she's smart...she's sexy..she is everything that a guy wants." --Milo for her GF's blog.

After succeeded to make me wanna puke with envy this morning by sending me this video, my BF philantropically add the vid here, put the subject and a little comment under it as you can see above. ehauhe so ABG my BF is. And so full of message don't u think? ehaue... no no no.. don't get me wrong... he never asks me to change. Ooorr maybe.. just a maybe... I don't need to change to fulfill his obviously subjective requirements? Heuaeu.. So we have an ABG BF and a GR GF here!

Anyway,

I used to change my accent, change my stance

My phone number, the way I dance

Some people change lovers like they change their sheets

But I won't change you honey, you're for keeps

I used to think I had to change the way I am

To feel better, to get a man

But once I stopped trying I fell for you

You fell for me so I'll stay the same for you

Now that I have found you

You've changed my life

Cos you're the one who showed me

I have everything right

We're never gonna differ cos we know it's true

So don't change me and I won't change you

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Dear My Dear

Dear My Dear,

I wish I were there..

Hug,

A Bestfriend

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Unity in Diversity

People says Singapore is a multi culture country. It is.
Irresistably, talking about multi culture often followed by comparison.
Speaking a bit of comparative here, the following is an amateur observation of a law graduate student to her peers and before being judged as judgmental, she prefers to describe herself first.

INDONESIAN
One, is me. Im so plain. Im the plainest. I wear white/grey polo with cargo pants, flip flops, coach, tomy hilfiger (sorry for the low wages for the worker..) or nine west bag and no accesories.
Second, is my friend. She's so stylish. Sundress/tank top with cardigans/trendy t-shirt/trendy shirt with hot pants, trendy jeans, cute skirts, ipod on ears, earings, necklace, pretty flat sandals, and hot shocking baby pink nail polish (today). Haha it's you you naughty silent reader!!!

CHINESE
Since this is Singapore, you can see many of them with their own style. But mostly it will be tank top with skirt with boots (?) or some dresses with high heels, oversized shirt with baggy jeans or something black with tartan. Kalo yang ini ga boleh pake bahasa inggris, nanti ngerti yang baca.. biasanya walaupun pake baju yang sleeveless... keteknya heboh dah :( rimbuuunn....

SINGAPOREAN
The sexiest students I would say. Minimal sundresses, tank top, hot pants, cute flat sandals. Gorgeous!

JAPANESE
Highlited hair with japanese style. Cool bags.

INDIAN
T-shirt/shirt and jeans or skirts with ethnic sandals or shoes or running shoes plus backpack.

AMERICAN
Tank top, ethnic skirts, flip flops, hair bun, sunglasses put on their head, some tattoes, silver accesories.

EUROPEAN
Long sleeves shirt/polo-shirt/t-shirt, jeans, mini skirts, cute shoes, branded bags.

The above are obviously the girls' style. While for the boys, well American boys usually wear flip-flops, short and t-shirt while Chinese boys wear brown short sleeve shirt with khaki pants. But, there are some exceptions for example:

• I dont know where he comes from, but he seems to choose short, shirt and suit (?) with brown shoes and brown bag for his style.
• I dont know where he comes from, I saw him this morning. He really looks like a real law student. I mean light brown polo-shirt (most likely used by bapa bapa), ploy lighter brown pants (idem), brown pantoffel shoes and small brown belts.

That's about a little bit of comparative. Don't take this too serious, a bit of comparison is always good :D

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